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Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Whoever is Happy Will Make Others Happy, Too.

I want to “do good” in the world.  I mean, really, with very few exceptions, who doesn’t want that?  It’s a pretty normal human desire to be a positive influence, to create a legacy, to leave a mark on life in some way.  Now, I’m no Nobel Peace Prize Winner Mother Teresa type, and I’m pretty sure I won’t be reaching anywhere near her heights of humanitarianism anytime soon.  Yet, even short of actually creating a worldwide phenomenon, I just believe that each of us has the need and the ability to radiate positive vibes; or in the words of those great philosophers, the Beach Boys, “Good, Good, Good - Good Vibrations!”  (If you don’t immediately sing this tune in your head, you may be an alien.  I mean, it’s #6 on Rolling Stone's 500 Greatest Songs of All Time, for goodness’ sake!)   

I’ve heard different people describe it in many different words.  Optimism.  Beliefs.  Dreams.  Hope.  Positive thinking.  Can-do attitude.  They all point in the same direction.  My word is “Faith,” and has been since I was a young girl.  In fact, I recently came across a diary from high school.  The occasion was one of those agonizing cleaning-out projects that I had put off for years until moving plans forced me to confront the paper-filled boxes or find a new place for them.  Excruciating.  Of course, it takes way longer than it should, because I couldn’t help sitting cross-legged on the closet floor to reminisce over each photo, place them all into piles to scan into my computer for yet another future project, and read this outdated diary of a 16-year-old with the lock still intact.  “Just got home, tired, turned on the radio and my song immediately came on ‘Feelin’ Stronger Everyday’.  It makes me happy and thankful for my life and friends and renews my faith in Jesus!” 

Now, I honestly do not remember being that faith-filled as a kid, but it did make me realize that I still get a positive charge out of that 1970’s Chicago hit.  It also helped me better understand why I now awaken each and every morning uttering a personal mantra for my day’s inspiration: “This is the day which the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it” from the Bible’s book of Psalms.  Don’t get me wrong, I already admitted I’m not a saint.  Some mornings are better than others and there are times I growl through gritted teeth “we WILL rejoice…”  The point is, my personal drive to do good is fostered by my faith as a Christian.  But, whatever we call it, wherever we seek it, we can only do good if we find our own happy spot.  After all, how can I be a positive influence on the world around me without first finding a source of good vibes in myself?


Actually, another teenaged girl’s diary said it much better than little Nelda Lynn’s, with a beautifully simple message.  Annelies "Anne" Marie Frank’s short  life ended in a war zone concentration camp, yet she found the hope and optimism to scribble down:  “…there is always some beauty left  - in nature, sunshine, freedom, in yourself; whoever is happy will make others happy, too.